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by Sonya
Wed May 09, 2018 9:45 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Lack of Support on FB Group
Replies: 16
Views: 3389

Re: Lack of Support on FB Group

Teresa, we used to sing songs about God's love, but from our sermons and bible studies, all I learned was how scary and vengeful he is. My best friend in college (COC college - Lipscomb University) was Methodist. She is the one who taught me about God's love. My Mom still keeps drilling into me how ...
by Sonya
Tue May 08, 2018 12:10 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Lack of Support on FB Group
Replies: 16
Views: 3389

Re: Lack of Support on FB Group

My FB post: "I refuse to debate with them, because they will NEVER give in. Its a pointless drama, and part of the reason I left is I don't want the drama anymore. Everything is life or death, heaven or hell, black or white to them." And I was referring to"brain washing" in the s...
by Sonya
Tue May 08, 2018 10:32 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Lack of Support on FB Group
Replies: 16
Views: 3389

Lack of Support on FB Group

I recently joined a ex-COC FB support group. I posted a comment about the COC brainwashing kids early (in Lads to Leaders), and mentioned the "drama" in the COC, and I was actually "rebuked", saying that I am the one causing the drama by leaving! Some support group! I have a feel...
by Sonya
Tue May 01, 2018 12:39 pm
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Left COC 20 yrs ago, Family still harassing
Replies: 8
Views: 2556

Re: Left COC 20 yrs ago, Family still harassing

It has been a shock to me as well. I knew it would be bad when I left, but I thought the harassment would have ended by now. They NEVER give up. And now that I've decided to go No Contact (at least for awhile), it'll get much much worse.
by Sonya
Tue May 01, 2018 8:04 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Left COC 20 yrs ago, Family still harassing
Replies: 8
Views: 2556

Left COC 20 yrs ago, Family still harassing

After 20 years of being "rebuked", prayed for, and pitied by my family for leaving the COC, I have finally reached my limit of patience with them. I guess I'm slow, but I'm 56, and I just want PEACE. They are so dramatic. In fact, the COC is so dramatic! I am so glad I "escaped" ...