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by toby
Mon Aug 01, 2016 7:03 pm
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: I'm free!
Replies: 20
Views: 6595

Re: I'm free!

Yes, it is a small fellowship. We probably know some of the same people. But, I will warn you that some of the one cuppers read here, so it maybe best not to reveal too much of yourself if you don't want them to know your here. I received a lot of backlash. There is so much joy in the freedom I feel...
by toby
Mon Aug 01, 2016 12:37 pm
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: I'm free!
Replies: 20
Views: 6595

Re: I'm free!

Hi,

I mostly lurk here, but I am from the one cup, no hair cutting and pants wearing for women church. I left 30 years ago. I still love the people very much, but am so happy to be free of that mindset.

Welcome
by toby
Sun Jul 12, 2015 4:09 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Rate YOUR CoC - is it a cult?
Replies: 21
Views: 5221

Re: Rate YOUR CoC - is it a cult?

I gave my childhood COC a 149. I perceived our main leader as incredibly domineering while others just thought he was a strong leader. But, maybe that's why I left and they are still there.
by toby
Thu Apr 23, 2015 2:52 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: One Cup Churches
Replies: 26
Views: 6948

Re: One Cup Churches

You are not suppose to take communion if you are not a member of the one cup church, but they don't stop anyone from taking communion. The cup and loaf are passed around the whole church, pew by pew. You either take some or just pass it on. I believe someone says before communion who can take it.
by toby
Wed Nov 05, 2014 2:37 pm
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hi!
Replies: 16
Views: 8282

Re: Hi!

Hi, I am also from a coc that does not allow hair cutting for women. It took many years after leaving to be able to cut my hair. It is now shoulder length and I love it. :D