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by Excocmember96
Sun Nov 29, 2020 5:12 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

Oh thank you!! I had no idea actually! I thought CoC was an umbrella term for icoc and icc, do you have a link for the icoc groups, I appreciate you letting me know! Everyone here has been so kind and helpful I really appreciate it :) There are things that I don't talk about because of identificati...
by Excocmember96
Sun Nov 29, 2020 5:11 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

teresa wrote:Here's one site. It looks a bit out of date but they have links to other sites that might be useful.

http://www.reveal.org

Thank you so much!
by Excocmember96
Sun Nov 29, 2020 5:10 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

I am afraid the whole discipling stuff would have been very attractive to me at a time in my life. Glad I missed it, and glad you are out. (/quote) It is very attractive. You end up being a disciple under a person who has supposedly got it together. How many people got it together in the CoC. The o...
by Excocmember96
Sat Nov 28, 2020 2:17 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

Hi ExCocmember96 Welcome to the board. Were you raised in the Boston CoC or ICC movement, perhaps? I was raised in the ICOC I don’t feel comfortable saying where because most of my (old) friends and family attend still and I’d rather stay anonymous. That's ok; we definitely don't want you to "...
by Excocmember96
Fri Nov 27, 2020 8:05 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Public shaming
Replies: 53
Views: 20817

Re: Public shaming

My region was awful with this. One time two campus church members slept together and the girl got pregnant and they had an entire lesson on why they had sinned and addressed them both by name (while they were in the room too!) any time someone had fallen into deep sin they would tell all of us, add...
by Excocmember96
Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:52 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

teresa wrote:Hi ExCocmember96

Welcome to the board. Were you raised in the Boston CoC or ICC movement, perhaps?
I was raised in the ICOC I don’t feel comfortable saying where because most of my (old) friends and family attend still and I’d rather stay anonymous.
by Excocmember96
Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:47 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Re: Hello!

Hi and welcome to the Board. I've been 'out' for decades, and I seem to have missed some changes - what is a 'Sector'? what are 'regions'? Those were not words I ever heard in the CoC, back in the distant past when I was young. Please feel totally free to read any and all available 'threads' (discu...
by Excocmember96
Wed Nov 25, 2020 4:09 pm
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 24
Views: 9147

Hello!

So I was a kingdom kid, born and raised in the church. I got baptized at 17 and went to become a leader of the campus group. That’s when the responsibilities just piled on and on and struggling with depression while trying to be perfect enough for the church drove me to a mental hospital. I felt lik...
by Excocmember96
Wed Nov 25, 2020 7:19 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Public shaming
Replies: 53
Views: 20817

Re: Public shaming

My region was awful with this. One time two campus church members slept together and the girl got pregnant and they had an entire lesson on why they had sinned and addressed them both by name (while they were in the room too!) any time someone had fallen into deep sin they would tell all of us, addr...