Ex-Church of Christ Support Board

I'm not sure where to begin. I grew up in the CoC and went to a CoC college. I had been seeing problems in the CoC for a long time since my parents' divorce when I was 14, but they have seemed much more blatant since I had to move back to the rural area where I grew up and my "grandfather-planted" church, which is mostly made of my extended family.

I have decided to take a break from the church of Christ, at least until I can move back to an area like my college town where even the churches of Christ aren't so backward. Even though a part of my now feels free, another part of me feels trapped. You see, this church/my family has been such a major part of my life that I may be cutting myself off from relationships that have always been dear to my heart.

I know I will eventually find new relationships, but this may be a hard transition period.

Welcome. I know it's tough, as we all make choices that best fit our particular situation. I wish you well, and welcome!

Welcome! I understand everything you are saying and it will get better with time. I was also in a rural hardcore COC when I left. It is tough especially dealing with family members.

Welcome to the ex-board. Please read as much as you wish and visit as often as you want!

Glad that you found us. Read, enjoy, have a laugh, or maybe a tear.

welcome. And yes, being in any organization such as the CofC ends up being the basis or format of almost all relationships. Can make it real hard for a while.

Welcome, Ashes.

I wish you good luck as you go through this "transition period."

A lot of folks here can identify with what you are going through.

Absolutely take a break. Happy you found us and hope we can be of help during your transition period.