Bible Studies All The Time
Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2015 9:00 am
Did anyone else go to a church where the elders and preacher seemed obsessed with having extra bible studies during the week? We always talk about how the CoC was a three time a week gig, but I remember in my teenage years we were lucky if it was just three times a week.
When I was 13 or 14 one of the elders got this bright idea to have a teenage bible study at the church building on Saturday mornings...at 8:00 am. And of course if you weren't there it was just like being gone on Sunday morning. If you weren't there, you better have a good excuse. I remember being miserable, losing my one morning a week to sleep in, to go somewhere I didn't want to be. All of my friends were sleeping in and watching Saturday morning cartoons, and I had to be at church. After about four or five weeks, people stopped coming and by week eight I think my dad and I were the only ones to show up, so they finally cancelled the Saturday morning bible studies.
Not much longer after that stopped, the preacher decided to have a men's bible study and breakfast on Saturday mornings. So once again, even though I was 14, I was baptized and therefore I was one of the men, so I had to be there. My one day to sleep in, gone once again. For several years, the congregation was divided into about four groups. One Friday night a month, someone in our group would host a bible study over at their house. You can probably imagine a teenager in high school looking forward to going out with friends on a Friday night...only to be told I had to go to a bible study at someone else's house instead. "What would you rather be doing than studying God's word!?" My parents would ask, as if I should be looking forward to it. There was also the time they decided to start Sunday evening services an hour early to have extra classes before. One for the men, one for the women, one for the teens and one for the younger kids. Another hour of my weekend kissed goodbye there as well.
I know that even today, every Monday night one of the members hosts a bible study at their house, because every time I call my dad on a Monday night he can't talk because he is there. Looking back it just feels like the CoC wants to be involved in every moment of your free time. They were trying to start bible studies constantly during the week, and of course you had to be there or you would be looked down upon. Did anyone else's church do this? Did you ever feel like the CoC was trying to control you outside of the normal Sunday and Wednesday night times?
When I was 13 or 14 one of the elders got this bright idea to have a teenage bible study at the church building on Saturday mornings...at 8:00 am. And of course if you weren't there it was just like being gone on Sunday morning. If you weren't there, you better have a good excuse. I remember being miserable, losing my one morning a week to sleep in, to go somewhere I didn't want to be. All of my friends were sleeping in and watching Saturday morning cartoons, and I had to be at church. After about four or five weeks, people stopped coming and by week eight I think my dad and I were the only ones to show up, so they finally cancelled the Saturday morning bible studies.
Not much longer after that stopped, the preacher decided to have a men's bible study and breakfast on Saturday mornings. So once again, even though I was 14, I was baptized and therefore I was one of the men, so I had to be there. My one day to sleep in, gone once again. For several years, the congregation was divided into about four groups. One Friday night a month, someone in our group would host a bible study over at their house. You can probably imagine a teenager in high school looking forward to going out with friends on a Friday night...only to be told I had to go to a bible study at someone else's house instead. "What would you rather be doing than studying God's word!?" My parents would ask, as if I should be looking forward to it. There was also the time they decided to start Sunday evening services an hour early to have extra classes before. One for the men, one for the women, one for the teens and one for the younger kids. Another hour of my weekend kissed goodbye there as well.
I know that even today, every Monday night one of the members hosts a bible study at their house, because every time I call my dad on a Monday night he can't talk because he is there. Looking back it just feels like the CoC wants to be involved in every moment of your free time. They were trying to start bible studies constantly during the week, and of course you had to be there or you would be looked down upon. Did anyone else's church do this? Did you ever feel like the CoC was trying to control you outside of the normal Sunday and Wednesday night times?