A place to snark and vent about CoC doctrine and/or our experiences in the CoC. This is a place for SUPPORT and AGREEMENT only, not a place to tell someone their experience and feelings are wrong, or why we disagree with them.
margin overa wrote:Ah, the old "you're a baptised male now, so at the age of 11 or 12, you're a man, and must be yanked from the kids' classes being taught by women" routine?
Not only the Bible class change up! What would prevent a baptized, penis-having 11-year-old from attending and participating in a men-only COC business meeting, doctrinally speaking of course? I mean, assuming it wouldn't keep him out past his bedtime.
margin overa wrote:Ah, the old "you're a baptised male now, so at the age of 11 or 12, you're a man, and must be yanked from the kids' classes being taught by women" routine?
Not only the Bible class change up! What would prevent a baptized, penis-having 11-year-old from attending and participating in a men-only COC business meeting, doctrinally speaking of course? I mean, assuming it wouldn't keep him out past his bedtime.
Lev
Perhaps it wouldn't be expedient for a junior birdman to be advising his elders and betters.
Lev wrote:Any word on why the meetings are exclusively for men, not women too?
Lev
The congregation I attended decided at one point to have a women's meeting each quarter, to satisfy the curiosity of the women and also to allow the widows a chance to voice opinions and such. These meetings were predominantly about who was cooking what for the next pot luck and who was going to teach the kindergarten class next. If we had the nerve to ask questions about the finances or the running of the church, we were politely smiled at and given pat answers. I quit going after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
Think for yourselves, and let others enjoy the privilege to do so, too."-- Voltaire, philosopher and historian
katisha wrote:The congregation I attended decided at one point to have a women's meeting each quarter, to satisfy the curiosity of the women and also to allow the widows a chance to voice opinions and such. These meetings were predominantly about who was cooking what for the next pot luck and who was going to teach the kindergarten class next. If we had the nerve to ask questions about the finances or the running of the church, we were politely smiled at and given pat answers. I quit going after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
Emphasis added.
If I were the type of person to use emojis, I would use the little yellow face with the bugged-out eyes right now. That's incredibly condescending. I would have quit going too.
I always felt that the women were so LUCKY that they didn't have to participate in the business meeting. I would've gladly traded places with any of them.