Ivy wrote:One of the main doctrines that I did not agree with is that religious non-cofc people are "not christians", "not saved", etc; only cofc people were christians. The arrogance of it was appalling to me.
This.
My husband once asked his mom, "Do you really think that anyone baptized
for the remission of their sins is going to hell simply because they aren't in the church of Christ?"
She wouldn't answer that.
So he reworded his question.
Husband: "Can people who don't go to the church of Christ be baptized for the right reasons?"
MIL: "Sure they can."
H: "Okay... So, there are possibly people out there who don't go to the church of Christ, but they're saved?"
MIL: -crickets-
She couldn't get herself to admit that ANYONE outside of the coC can possibly make it to heaven.
It's both maddening and so sad.
The pride within the coC is astounding. So many of them are basically Pharisees!
An elder at the church we recently left, when we told the elders we were leaving, he said, "Well, I don't know why you want to leave. You're not going to get better sermons than ______ preaches." And then he made the comment that, "There's not another sound church within a hundred miles of here."
Are you kidding me?! We were accused of having pride (one of the reasons they shunned us), but THEY aren't proud?
Mind boggling.